Women also enjoy having sex just as much as any man

Hello Tomodachi’s,

How are you all? I am almost getting ready to go to my Japanese lessons but just decided to write something brief on my blog before I go.

From the title alone you must be wondering what topic I have up my sleeve this time, right? Earlier today I came across an article about three women who practically kidnapped a man from off the streets and raped him. Many of these articles that I read, I go to the comment section to see what people have to say or what they are thinking. And of course there are nice comments, bad comments, means comments, crazy comments and everything in between. Just like any other comment section. But then I came across another commenter responding to someone and he said something along the lines of “there are some women who’s sex drive is more than normal”… So, what is considered a normal sex drive for a woman?

The comment dredged up a memory I had long forgotten about of a few male classmates asking and being shocked by the fact that I would sometimes watch porn. They were so AMAZED that a girl/ woman would even watch porn… Is that something to be so shocked about? I always wondered about that. Are girls not supposed to watch porn or enjoy having sex compared to their male counterparts? That comment got me thinking is this how many males see women? Do they think women cannot get horny, have sexual urges and truly enjoy having sex? Are these sorts of emotions only meant for men?

This also reminded me of an anime I am currently watching called Shingeki no Bahamut: Virgin Soul (the second season of Shingeki no Bahamut). Anyway, there is this main character of the story, Nina, who would always turn into a dragon whenever she was face to face with a very attractive man. Basically, she got horny every time she saw these attractive men and turned into a dragon.


It was quite an interesting concept, to be honest. It was quite different from the norm. The norm being, the usually horny male character. I have seen my fair share of horny characters in anime and the majority of these said characters were all male. I was so shocked when I saw there were so many anime fans who was not so pleased and thought that it was disgusting seeing such a beautiful but overly horny female character. And I wonder why? People have no problem seeing male characters getting horny for a female, it is even almost expected, but everyone loses their shit (sorry for my French) when that horny character happens to be female. Why is it so hard for people to accept that females also have sexual frustrations and sexual desires just as much as any man?

Females do not have sex to satisfy a male’s curiousity and sexual desires. Females have sex because they want to and have their own sexual desires to fulfil as well.

4 thoughts on “Women also enjoy having sex just as much as any man

  1. Hi, Angie. There’s nothing at all wrong with it, in my opinion, if it’s well made. Both of my wives enjoyed watching porn, especially as an occasional prelude to lovemaking. My second wife would sometimes even tell me, “Hey, let’s try the thing they did in that video. That looked like fun.”

    So no, anyone who is surprised has probably led a sheltered life.

    As for those who seem to think women shouldn’t enjoy sex, or even be horny, I think there are two components to that, not necessarily separate from each other. One is the religious angle, especially among conservative evangelicals of all religions, that women are to serve their man. The other is the secular version of the same concept, but without the religion. And both are products of male-dominated societies in which men are taught that everything, especially women, are “supposed to” serve and service them.

    As for me, in my youth I would, to put it bluntly, “get off” quickly most of the time, so I made it a habit to do whatever I could to please a woman first. I took so much pleasure, both mental and emotional, in that that it quickly became my favorite thing to watch my wife’s or girlfriends expressions as she was reaching the top. This sometimes went so far that I would forgo my own release just to bring her across the threshold multiple times.

    So as I’ve said before, you do you, and let all those naysayers and critics go. Don’t even carry them or their attitudes around with you in your mind.


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