How are you all? I am almost getting ready to go to my Japanese lessons but just decided to write something brief on my blog before I go.
From the title alone you must be wondering what topic I have up my sleeve this time, right? Earlier today I came across an article about three women who practically kidnapped a man from off the streets and raped him. Many of these articles that I read, I go to the comment section to see what people have to say or what they are thinking. And of course there are nice comments, bad comments, means comments, crazy comments and everything in between. Just like any other comment section. But then I came across another commenter responding to someone and he said something along the lines of “there are some women who’s sex drive is more than normal”… So, what is considered a normal sex drive for a woman?
The comment dredged up a memory I had long forgotten about of a few male classmates asking and being shocked by the fact that I would sometimes watch porn. They were so AMAZED that a girl/ woman would even watch porn… Is that something to be so shocked about? I always wondered about that. Are girls not supposed to watch porn or enjoy having sex compared to their male counterparts? That comment got me thinking is this how many males see women? Do they think women cannot get horny, have sexual urges and truly enjoy having sex? Are these sorts of emotions only meant for men?
This also reminded me of an anime I am currently watching called Shingeki no Bahamut: Virgin Soul (the second season of Shingeki no Bahamut). Anyway, there is this main character of the story, Nina, who would always turn into a dragon whenever she was face to face with a very attractive man. Basically, she got horny every time she saw these attractive men and turned into a dragon.
It was quite an interesting concept, to be honest. It was quite different from the norm. The norm being, the usually horny male character. I have seen my fair share of horny characters in anime and the majority of these said characters were all male. I was so shocked when I saw there were so many anime fans who was not so pleased and thought that it was disgusting seeing such a beautiful but overly horny female character. And I wonder why? People have no problem seeing male characters getting horny for a female, it is even almost expected, but everyone loses their shit (sorry for my French) when that horny character happens to be female. Why is it so hard for people to accept that females also have sexual frustrations and sexual desires just as much as any man?
Females do not have sex to satisfy a male’s curiousity and sexual desires. Females have sex because they want to and have their own sexual desires to fulfil as well.