Today I happened to come across a photo being shared on Facebook and this is what was written in the description:
Every Husband Should Read This
“Love her …when she sips on your coffee or tea. She only wants to make sure it tastes just right for you.
Love her…when she “push…es” you to pray. She wants to be with you in Heaven.
Love her…when she asks you to play with the kids. She did not “make” them on her own.
Love her…when she is jealous. Out of all the men she can have, she chose you.
Love her…when she has annoying little habits that drives you nuts. You have them too.
Love her…when her cooking is bad. She tries.
Love her…when she looks disheveled in the morning. She always grooms herself up again.
Love her…when she asks to help with the kids homework. She only wants you to be part of the home.
Love her…when she asks if she looks fat. Your opinion counts, so tell her she’s beautiful.
Love her…when she looks beautiful. She’s yours so appreciate her.
Love her…when she spends hours to get ready. She only wants to look her best for you.
Love her…when she buys you gifts you don’t like. Smile and tell her it’s what you’ve always wanted.
Love her…when she has developed a bad habit. You have many more and with wisdom and politeness you have all the time to help her change.
Love her…when she cries for absolutely nothing. Don’t ask, tell her it’s going to be okay.
Love her…when she suffers from PMS. Buy chocolate, rub her feet and back and just chat to her (this works!).
Love her…when whatever you do is not pleasing. It happens and will pass.
Love her…when she stains your clothes. You needed a new shirt anyway.
Love her…when she tells you how to drive. She only wants you to be safe.
Love her…when she argues. She only wants to make things right for both.
Love her…she is yours. You don’t need any other special reason!!!
All this forms part of a Woman’s Character.
Women are part of your life and should be treated as the Queen.
• Treat the women well.
• The best of you are those who are the best in the treatment of their wives.”~*
Personally, I think this should go both ways not only the husband should read but also the wife with regards to her husband. The wife should read and think about her husband as well because they also go through the same things. Men have emotions too, they cry, they hurt, they want the best for their children and they also get jealous just as much as a woman.
The same way there are dead beat fathers out there are also dead beat mothers that leave the child to be taken care of by the mother. The social belief that men do not hurt and cry is ridiculous I think. Although they probably do not cry as often as women do (Although not every women is emotional all of the time) but they do cry too. They too are human. We are all human. So we should treat our spouses, lovers, and significant over the way we ourselves would want to be treated by them, regardless if you are a woman or man. I’m pretty sure a lot of females would see nothing wrong with it but this should not be one-sided. It should go both ways. Friday I shall be making another post regarding my vacation, so look forward to it. Take care and have a nice day! 🙂